Not that kind of mom

At the zoo last week for a play date, a little one fell down and her mom asked to see if any of us other moms had a band aid. We didn't. She then said, "I'm not that kind of mom." This made me laugh. It also got me thinking about being a mom and being prepared. I can't tell you the number of times I've been out and found myself with no extra diapers, or wipes. There have been a few times where I've forgotten pacifiers, a clean change of clothes, bottles for the formula, formula for the bottles. Sometimes I've left the whole diaper bag at home and brought nothing but my own wallet and phone. Those were not good days.
Anyways, the point is, I'm sure there are moms/dads out there that never forget. They probably keep extras of everything in there car just in case what's in the diaper bag isn't sufficient. And I'm sure there are those that always have band aids, possibly even whole first aid kits in their stroller. I'm just not one of them.
So as I was contemplating my lack of preparedness in reference to my kids, I came to the realization that I'm ok with it. If B leaves the house in 2 different shoes, than that's her problem. As long as it's not bothering her, why should it bother me? Or if she gets dirty while we're out, then she gets dirty. She's a kid, that's what they do.
I'm not condoning being neglectful, I'm just supporting my ability to be laid back. As long as my kids are healthy, safe and respectful, than the rest is just part of being a kid, and a mom. I'll continue to let the more prepared parents loan me a band aid or an extra wipe. Besides, being able to lend things out help those super prepared moms and dads feel like they've accomplished something by being more prepared. So if anything I'm helping their self esteem....You're Welcome.
Now if you'll excuse me, my toddler is running through the streets naked playing with sharp objects and feeding stray dogs.